Are you struggling with a child who is disrespectful, obnoxious, or even abusive toward you? Are you frustrated and exhausted from arguing constantly?
Do you find yourself "walking on eggshells" around your child, trying to avoid saying something that will set him or her off?
Have you tried talking, screaming, punishing, pleading, and negotiating… but your child still walks all over you?
All children behave badly from time to time. But when defiance, hostility and refusal to comply are ongoing, the child’s behavior affects the entire family and requires a more serious intervention.
Fortunately, I’ve seen that when parents use the right tools, they can change their child’s behavior problems - quickly and dramatically.
My name is James Lehman, and I have a very personal understanding of kids with behavior problems, and precisely how these behaviors take their toll on parents, siblings, and other loved ones.
I displayed severe oppositional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager.
And as a Behavioral Therapist specializing in helping troubled children, teens, and their families for the past 30 years…
For three decades James Lehman worked with troubled teens, younger children with behavior problems, families and professionals who live with, educate, treat and assist in managing them.
In public schools, residential treatment centers, private schools, and numerous outpatient and inpatient settings, James developed an approach to managing children and adolescents that challenges them to learn to solve social problems without hiding behind a facade of disrespectful, obnoxious, or abusive behavior.
In later years, James Lehman provided training and consultation to schools, treatment centers and state agencies.
I know the frustration, fear, isolation and exhaustion you’re feeling as a parent because I’ve worked with hundreds of parents just like you.
Parents of kids with behavior problems feel like they’re trapped in little prisons with no way out.
And no matter how hard they try, they can’t escape the endless arguments with and ceaseless hostility from their child.
No one knows a defiant child better than someone who behaved the same way as a kid. That’s why I can teach you how to turn your child’s behavior around now with my Total Transformation® Program.
If you are parenting a difficult child, you’ve heard this statement a thousand times: "This child needs structure."
But what is that exactly? And how do you put it in place in your home?
This is precisely where The Total Transformation® can change your life.
Inside this powerful program, I’ll teach you simple, step-by-step techniques you can use to put structures in place that will help your child solve his or her problems without resorting to bullying, conflict, and abusive behavior.
Here’s a look at some of the things you’ll learn:
Like many parents of kids who act out, you may have been in family therapy with your child.
And you've probably come out wondering why it's still so difficult to get your child's behavior to change, especially after you've spent all that time and money!
The problem here is simple…
Traditional counseling and therapy focus on getting a child to talk about his "feelings" and building his self-esteem to change his behavior.
I believe there's a better way. And, in my experience, parents need tools they can use at home once the child comes out of that office and faces day-to-day, real-world challenges.
The bottom line is that behaviorally troubled kids lack the skills to solve the problems they encounter every day - and this is precisely what The Total Transformation® gives you!
The Total Transformation® teaches you how to give your child more effective ways to solve his problems than fighting, screaming, annoying and defiance.
Your son or daughter will learn a simple system that will enable him or her to handle problems appropriately, without acting out. The Total Transformation® is a system that gets your child… and you… better results.
I created The Total Transformation® for parents like you who need help in the moment with kids who overwhelm them with defiance and bad behavior.
The reaction to this program by parents has been overwhelming! See for yourself:
"My 8-year-old son was diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder and ADHD. He was stealing, lying and had temper tantrums when he didn't get his own way. You have really turned my kid around. Within the first month we noticed a major change.* All of a sudden, there was this total Transformation®. He realized this behavior wasn't worth it anymore. Now he pretty much has a good day every day. He does his work. He gets full privileges at home. I encourage other parents to try it because it really does work."
"My grandson is 15 years old. He is extremely argumentative. He just won't stop arguing. He's obsessive about it. We've learned verbiage from The Total Transformation® Program that you can say and it's almost like magic. If you say those words, they stop arguing! Thanks so much to all of you and especially to James Lehman. I hope this program brings success to millions of families."
I have seen my techniques work time and time again with even the most troubled children, and I am absolutely confident that my step-by-step program can bring success to your family, too.
You absolutely CAN change your child's behavior and improve your life as a parent quickly. To prove it, I’m giving away a thousand of my best-selling Total Transformation Programs—for FREE.
All you need to do is tell us how the program works for you and your family. Did it turn your child’s behavior around? Did the screaming and arguing stop in your home?
Just order my program, use it with your child, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. I’ll refund the purchase price of the program. You keep The Total Transformation Program forever… for Free.
I understand what makes defiant kids tick because I had severe behavior problems as a kid.
The techniques you’ll find inside The Total Transformation® Program are precisely what turned me around. They’re the tools I’ve used for the last 30 years to get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school.
The Total Transformation® is not a substitute for medication or professional care, or a cure for any disorder or condition. Never discontinue a child’s medication without consulting a qualified professional.
The Total Transformation® is a program for you - the parent - to give you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in parenting a defiant child. It gives you parenting techniques that, until now, were difficult, if not impossible, to find.
Parents who use The Total Transformation® tell me they’d tried everything-pleading, negotiating, screaming, even therapy-and nothing had worked.
The one thing they hadn’t tried was The Total Transformation®…and, finally, the defiance stopped.
"Our son always had a hard time with authority, especially our authority. The results from using the Total Transformation® Program are the arguments have almost ceased. They are down 90%. It's made a happier home. For the first time we have control. Now we know how to end those arguments. We get to them before they even start."
"What we're experiencing is defiance, obnoxious and disrespectful behavior in dealing with parents. Extreme fighting between the two kids. To the point where it was physical. Really severe threats, beating each other up, hurting each other. We've only had The Total Transformation’ for about three weeks but already we feel more relaxed because we feel like we've got something that's working. And the kids are starting to respond. I'm feeling better, my husband's feeling better and I think my kids are starting to feel that we're turning around in our house."
"After The Total Transformation®, my son and I want to be around each other. Now when I ask him to do something he does it. There's no more arguing, no more lecturing and no more back talking. I am totally shocked at the results. If it can do 25 percent of what it's claiming, it will be a success, and it's done 100% of what it's claimed for me."
A child with defiant, disrespectful behavior can turn your home into a war zone where there is no peace.
The Total Transformation® teaches you how to restore the peace and sanity in your home and stop the screaming and arguing.
In Day One of this step-by-step program, you'll learn a whole new way to get your child to cooperate and comply, without having to raise your voice - ever.
Now, when you talk, your child will listen and respond appropriately.
Who's really in charge at your home?
If you are trying to parent a defiant, out-of-control child, you know how their behavior affects everyone and everything in your home, from siblings to your relationship with your spouse.
It's time to put you back in control of your home, and getting that control is simpler than you think.
The Total Transformation® will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority your children actually need from you.
Maybe you're thinking, "You don’t know my kid." Maybe you think nothing could change your child's behavior.
Well, I do know your child, and I want you to see how this program can transform your child's behavior and your life as a parent.
The Total Transformation Program has helped over 200,000 families and I really want to see what it can do for you too! That’s why, for a limited time, I’m willing to give you my program for FREE in exchange for your feedback.
When you order your program, you’ll pay 3 monthly payments of $109 each, plus $19 for shipping and handling ($25 to Canadian destinations). Then, if you complete and return the survey that’s enclosed with your program—within 90 days— you’ll get a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You’ll keep the program forever…for FREE.
Have you ever had a therapist give you an offer like that? I will, because I am 100% confident that the secrets you’ll find inside this program will turn your defiant child around and restore peace and sanity to your home!
So I urge you - give yourself the chance to rediscover the joys of being a parent again. Get in on my FREE Program Offer today and stop the bad behavior… for good.
Click on the link below now:
Here's to a Total Transformation®
PS - If you don't try this program, what will you do to change your child's behavior? Are you hoping it will change on its own?
I can tell you from 30 years of experience that bad behavior does NOT change without an intervention like the one I'm giving you here. Inside The Total Transformation®, I'll give you all the tools you need to improve your child's behavior. And you can use them all for FREE.
Plus…if you sign up for the FREE Program offer now, you'll also receive a FREE Bonus CD: 10 Ways to Turn Around Your Child's Attitude in One Minute or Less. So don’t delay! Click here to get in on this FREE Offer now…