Finally…a simple, step–by–step way to stop your child’s
impulsive, out–of–control behavior—RIGHT NOW

Are you struggling with a child with ADD/ADHD who is angry, disruptive, defiant, or even abusive at home or at school? Is life turning into a daily battle? Are you exhausted from arguing and yelling constantly? Or do you "walk on eggshells" around your child, avoiding conflicts that will "set him off?" Have you tried medication, therapy, supplements, special diets and the problem behaviors remain?

All children behave badly from time to time. But in children with attention disorders, uncontrollable anger, outbursts and destructive behaviors can be ongoing and often severe. Because of their attention problems, kids with ADD/ADHD may not learn as quickly, and they can miss the lessons that other kids learn easily. They may have trouble learning social skills and how to behave appropriately. They can even have difficulty performing simple everyday tasks like staying in their seat in school, following directions, or doing work asked by teachers. Basic expectations become difficult problems that they don’t know how to solve. This causes them to experience extreme anger, frustration and low self-esteem as a result of their condition. Consequently, they act out more severely and often turn to substances to self-medicate.

Raising kids with ADD or ADHD is one of the toughest of all parenting challenges. The behaviors caused by attention and hyperactivity disorders affect the entire family and often require serious interventions. Fortunately, I've seen that when parents use the right tools, they can help their children learn skills that enable them to control their anger, frustration and destructive behavior… quickly and dramatically.

A Lifetime of Experience with Child Behavior Problems

I have a very personal understanding of kids with behavior problems because I displayed severe oppositional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager. For the past 30 years, I've been a behavioral therapist, focusing my work on helping behaviorally-troubled children and teenagers turn around their behavior and take responsibility for their actions.

I know the frustration, fear, isolation and exhaustion you're feeling as a parent because I've worked with hundreds of parents just like you. Parents of kids with ADD/ADHD feel like they're trapped in little prisons with no way out. No matter how hard they try, they can't seem to stop their child’s problematic behaviors.

No one knows a defiant child better than someone who behaved the same way as a kid. That's why I know I can teach you how to turn your child's behavior around now with The Total Transformation® Program.

They Say He "Needs Structure." But How? I’ll Show You How

If you're parenting a child with ADD/ADHD, you've heard this statement a thousand times: "This child needs structure." But what does that "structure" look like and how do you put it in place in your home?

That's where The Total Transformation comes in. I'll teach you simple, step-by-step techniques for giving your child the structure he needs to solve his problems and improve his behavior now. The program provides parents with a comprehensive plan and a wide range of tools to help teach kids how to solve the problems that frustrate them and trigger the bad behavior. Here's a look at some of the things you'll learn:

	How to stop arguing with your child
		This is a powerful technique parents love because it pulls the plug on any argument with your child. You'll be stunned at how quickly it works. Even if your teenage son is 6'2" tall and you're 5'4".
	The 10 words to say when he gets mouthy
		The technique that stops back talk and cursing…no matter how nasty your child gets.
	Stop the show
		The surefire way to stop fighting and acting out in public. If your child gets more defiant when he's with his friends, this is a must-have tool.
	Accountability
		Children with ADHD or ADD need to learn to take responsibility for their behavior and not use their diagnosis or disability as an excuse for inappropriate behavior. I'll give you a word-by-word script to use with your child to get him to take responsibility for his own behavior and stop blaming you and others.
	Consequences
		How to give them, which ones work and which ones don't, with specific consequences for kids in all age groups.
	What to do the next time
		Instead of talking back, screaming or blaming you, your child will now have a way to solve his problems that gets him better results and better reactions from teachers and other adults.

The Secret: It’s Not About Self–Esteem.
It’s About Problem Solving

Like many parents of kids who act out, you may have been in family therapy with your child. And you've probably come out wondering why it's still so difficult to get your child's behavior to change, after you've spent all that time and money.

Here's why. Traditional counseling and therapy focus on getting a child to talk about his "feelings" and building his self-esteem to change his behavior.

I believe there's a better way. And, in my experience, parents need tools they can use at home once the child comes out of that office and faces day-to-day, real-world challenges.

Many kids with ADD/ADHD lack the skills to solve the problems they encounter every day. The Total Transformation teaches you how to give your child more effective ways to solve his problems than fighting, screaming, annoying and defiance. He'll learn a simple system that will enable him to handle his problems appropriately and on his own, without acting out. A system that gets him…and you…better results.

I created The Total Transformation for parents like you, who need help in the moment with kids who overwhelm them with impulsive, out-of-control behavior. The reaction to this program by parents has been overwhelming. Take a look.

	“WE WEREN’T BAD PARENTS. WE JUST WEREN’T TRAINED FOR DEALING WITH CHALLENGING CHILDREN.” "Both of our kids have ADHD, bi–polar and depression issues. They were exhibiting extremely defiant, obnoxious and disrespectful behavior and were running the show. We were unbelievably frustrated, unbelievably tired. We’d gone through years of seeing psychiatrists—they dealt with the kids, but didn’t teach us parenting techniques. It wasn’t until I heard James Lehman’s tapes that I had exact words to say in situations we face on a daily basis. We’ve only had the tapes for about three weeks, but already my husband and I are feeling better and the kids are starting to respond.* All this time, we kept looking at ourselves as really bad parents, but we weren’t. We just weren’t trained for dealing with challenging children. The program is so fundamentally common sense, easy to use, and easy to fit into a crazy, stressed lifestyle. It has had a profound impact in a short period of time and is the best money I’ve spent in seven years in dealing with my kids." Deborah K. McLean, VA

	“YOU HAVE REALLY TURNED MY KID AROUND.” "My 8–year–old son was diagnosed with ADHD and Oppositional Defiant Disorder. He was stealing, lying and had temper tantrums when he didn’t get his own way. You have really turned my kid around. Within the first month we noticed a major change.* It was so helpful to learn that even though your child has ADHD or ODD or some other type of special need or disability, he still needs to be held accountable for his behavior. It may be more difficult for a child with a behavior disorder, but if you hold him responsible, you’re doing him a favor. As soon as we started making our son accountable for the things he was pulling and he suffered the consequences, he decided that the behavior wasn’t worth it. Now he pretty much has a good day every day. He does his work. He gets full privileges at home. I encourage other parents to try it because it really does work." Shawna P. Calgary, Alberta Canada

	“I’M NOT SURE I COULD HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT THE TOTAL TRANSFORMATION.” "I bought the program 4 days prior to the arrival of my first foster children—two teenage boys, one with ADHD and both with anger, depression, and anxiety problems. We had our first incident the second day the boys were here. Had I not had this program, it could have turned into a very bad situation. Instead, I knew exactly what to do, how to handle it. It was unbelievable. By using the program, the results I am seeing are really phenomenal. I’ve seen the boys turn around at home and at school in a very short period and that makes me a very proud foster parent. I’m not sure I could have done it without The Total Transformation." Dianna N. Rowlett, TX *Individual results will vary.

I have seen my techniques work time and time again with even the most troubled kids, and I am confident that my step–by–step program can bring success to your family, too.

You CAN change your child’s behavior and improve your life as a parent quickly. To prove it, I’m giving away a thousand of my best–selling Total Transformation Programs—for FREE.

All you need to do is tell us how the program works for you and your family. Did it turn your child’s behavior around? Did the screaming and arguing stop in your home?

Just order my program, use it with your child, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. I’ll refund the purchase price of the program. You keep The Total Transformation Program forever…for FREE.

This Is The Program My Parents Needed.
It’s What I Use with Defiant Kids

I understand what makes defiant kids tick because I had severe behavior problems as a kid. The techniques in The Total Transformation Program are what turned me around. They're the tools I've used for the last 30 years to get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school.

You don't need a psychology degree to use The Total Transformation. This is a straight-talk, plain English program for parents. There's no psychobabble or high-brow theory. I'll teach you exactly what to say and do to stop the arguments and get through to your kid, no matter how resistant he is to you. No matter how difficult the behavior has become at home and at school.

The Total Transformation is not a substitute for medication or professional care, or a cure for any disorder or condition. Never discontinue a child’s medication without consulting a qualified professional. The Total Transformation is a program for you—the parent—to give you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in parenting. It gives you parenting techniques that, until now, were difficult, if not impossible, to find.

Parents who use The Total Transformation tell me they'd tried everything—pleading, negotiating, screaming, punishing, even therapy—and nothing had worked. The one thing they hadn't tried was The Total Transformation…and, finally, the bad behavior stopped.

	“IT HAS REBUILT MY SELF–CONFIDENCE AS A PARENT.” "My 17 year old has ADHD and has had numerous escapades and problems. A psychiatrist wasn’t helping and I just didn’t know how I was going to be able to bring this kid around. My self–esteem and confidence in trying to raise my children properly was so depleted. I thought I was a complete and total failure. My dad bought The Total Transformation for me—that was a real gift. I love James Lehman’s style. He has a lot of wisdom and provides practical measures, not just some high falootin theory. In the short period of time we’ve had it, it has rebuilt my self–confidence as a parent and my kid has finally turned a corner. There is definitely hope. I wish I’d had it ten years earlier." Reverend Hal S. Erie, PA

	“IT GIVES YOU BACK CONTROL AND LETS YOU KNOW YOU’RE NOT ALONE.” "I devoured The Total Transformation Program immediately because my husband and I really needed help. I thought I could handle any problem. But that all went out the window when I had a son with ADHD and Tourette’s Syndrome. His hyperactivity comes in the form of explosive, impulsive behavior when he gets frustrated, like throwing the television across the room or bursting out in anger because he’s upset about something. We went the whole gamut—psychologist, psychiatrist, neurologist, behavioral studies. I felt I was just throwing money away. The Total Transformation Program gives you back control and lets you know you’re not nuts, you’re not alone. It brings back order to your home and it stops the yelling, screaming and fighting. I would recommend the program because the parent needs to understand that many of the troubles don’t lie with the child, they lie with the parent and how the parent is dealing with the child. I’m just so grateful to God that I got this program." Renee J. Sparkill, NY

	“IF I HAD HAD THIS PROGRAM WHEN HUNTER WAS TWO, OUR LIVES WOULD HAVE BEEN SO MUCH EASIER.” "My grandson Hunter has been living with me since he was three months old. He’s fifteen now. He has ADHD and has recently been diagnosed ODD. Hunter is extremely argumentative. He just won’t stop arguing. He’s obsessive about it. The Total Transformation Program takes away so much of the stress of raising him. I haven’t even gotten half way yet and it’s already helping a lot. In the third lesson, James Lehman says: ‘Avoiding the difficulty of holding a child accountable just causes bigger difficulty later.’ That’s what I’m living with right now. Because of other issues from the ADHD that required a lot of work and therapy, we let a lot of social and behavioral issues go by the wayside. I couldn’t deal with his behavior problems—or at least I didn’t think I could. Until now. We’ve learned verbiage from The Total Transformation Program that you can say to turn children’s arguments and behavior around. It’s amazing what changing a few words and limiting your talk can do. It’s almost like magic. He stops arguing. If I had had this program when Hunter was two, I think our lives would have been so much easier. Thanks so much to all of you and especially to James Lehman. I hope this program brings success to millions of families." Patricia H. Marietta, GA *Individual results will vary.

No Screaming. No Arguing. No Frustration

A child with ADD/ADHD can turn your home into a war zone where there is no peace. The Total Transformation teaches you how to restore the peace and sanity in your home and stop the screaming and arguing.

On day one, you'll learn a whole new way to get your child to cooperate, without having to raise your voice. Ever. No more getting sucked into pointless, never-ending arguments with your kid. No more senseless power struggles with an 8-year-old or a 15-year-old. No more negotiating and pleading to get your child to respond to simple requests. No more feeling powerless and wrung out because nothing you say to your kid gets through. Now, when you talk, your child will listen and respond appropriately.

Get Back in Control of Your Family Now

Who's really in charge at your home? If you're trying to parent an explosive, out-of-control child, you know how their behavior affects everyone and everything in your home, from siblings to your relationship with your spouse.

It's time to put you back in control of your home. Getting that control is simpler than you think. The Total Transformation will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority and structure your children actually need from you.

The Best Way to See How It Works Is to
Try It—For FREE

Maybe you're thinking, “You don't know my kid.” Maybe you think that because of your child’s condition, nothing can change his behavior. Well, I do know your kid. I’ve worked with many children just like yours, and I want you to see how this program can transform your child’s behavior and your life as a parent.

That’s Why I’m Willing to Give You
the Entire Program for FREE

The Total Transformation Program has helped over 200,000 families and I really want to see what it can do for you too! That’s why, for a limited time, I’m willing to give you my program for FREE in exchange for your feedback.

When you order your program, you’ll pay 3 monthly payments of $109 each, plus $19 for shipping and handling ($25 to Canadian destinations). Then, if you complete and return the survey that’s enclosed with your program—within 90 days— you’ll get a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You’ll keep the program forever…for FREE.

Have you ever had a therapist give you an offer like that? I will, because I know how to turn kids with ADD/ADHD around and I know I can help you turn things around in your home. I want to give you the chance to enjoy being a parent again and rediscover your child.

Don’t lose any more sleep over your child’s behavior. Don’t spend another day living in fear of the next phone call from school—or worse.

Get in on my FREE Program Offer today and stop the bad behavior…for good.

Here’s to a Total Transformation,

James Lehman, MSW

PS: If you don't try this program, what will you do to change your child's behavior? Medication helps by creating changes in brain chemistry, but it rarely results in a spontaneous change in child behavior, nor does it address the lack of problem solving skills. I can tell you from 30 years of experience that behavior doesn't change without an intervention like the one I'm giving you here. I'll give you all the tools you need to improve your child's behavior. And you can use them all for FREE.

Plus…if you sign up for the FREE Program offer now, you'll also receive a FREE Bonus CD: 10 Ways to Turn Around Your Child's Attitude in One Minute or Less. So don’t delay! Click here to get in on this FREE Offer now…