Finally…a simple, step-by-step way to stop violent outbursts
and anger in children—RIGHT NOW
Do you have children with anger problems? Are you exhausted from constantly battling with an angry child who can’t control his temper? Have you and your family suffered verbal or physical abuse from your child? Do you fear for your own safety and the safety of your family?
All children behave badly from time to time. But when explosive outbursts, violence, or out–of–control anger are ongoing, they affect the entire family and require more serious interventions. Fortunately, we’ve seen that when parents use the right tools, they can learn how to deal with their children’s anger, and teach them better ways to solve their problems.
James and Janet Lehman: Practical Solutions to Child Behavior Problems from 30 Years of Hands–On Experience
tional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager, and became a Behavioral Thera–
pist specializing in helping troubled children, teens and their families for 30 years.
A Lifetime of Experience with Child Anger Problems
James Lehman had a very personal understanding of children with anger issues because he was a kid with horrible behavior and anger problems. For more than 30 years, he was a behavioral therapist, focusing on helping behaviorally-troubled children and teenagers turn around their behavior, take responsibility for their actions, and get their tempers under control.
We know the frustration, fear, isolation and exhaustion you're feeling as a parent because we've worked with hundreds of parents just like you. Parents of children with anger problems feel like they're trapped in little prisons with no way out. No matter how hard they try, they can't escape the endless outbursts, in-your-face defiance, and ceaseless hostility from their child.
No one knows an angry, defiant child better than someone who behaved the same way as a kid. The Total Transformation Program can teach you how to turn your child's behavior around—now.
They Say He "Needs Structure." But How? We’ll Show You How
If you're parenting a difficult child who uses angry outbursts to control your home, you've heard this statement a thousand times: "This child needs structure." But what does that "structure" look like and how do you put it in place in your home?
That’s where The Total Transformation comes in. The program teaches you simple, step–by–step techniques for giving your child the structure he needs to solve his problems and control his anger now.
- The real cause of anger in children
We’ll help you understand what really causes your child’s anger and how to fix the faulty thinking that triggers it.
- How to stop being afraid of your child
We’ll show you how to stop living in fear of your child’s anger and violent outbursts.
- How to take away your child’s power and get yours back
Does your child use anger and aggressive behavior to control and intimidate you? You’ll learn how to stop “giving in” or “backing down” when he threatens to explode or melt down.
- How to give consequences that stop angry outbursts in children
You’ll learn how to set limits and hold your child accountable for his anger and destructive behavior through a system of effective consequences and rewards. We’ll explain how to give them, which ones work and which ones don’t, with specific consequences for kids in all age groups.
- How to “Stop the Show”
You’ll learn a surefire way to stop outbursts, meltdowns and explosive anger in public. If your child acts out more when he’s with his friends, this is a must–have tool.
- The 10 words to say when he gets mouthy
The technique that stops hateful back talk and cursing…no matter how mean and nasty your child gets.
- How to help your child “solve the problem of anger”
We ’ll help you teach your child appropriate problem–solving skills and anger management techniques. So the next time he’s faced with an anger–provoking situation, instead of lashing out, throwing things, or becoming violent, he’ll have a better way to solve his problem that gets him better results.
The Secret: It’s Not About Self–Esteem.
It’s About Problem Solving
Like many parents of children with anger problems, you may have been in family therapy with your child. And you've probably come out wondering why it's still so difficult to get your child's behavior to change, after you've spent all that time and money.
Here's why. Traditional counseling and therapy focus on getting a child to talk about his "feelings" and building his self-esteem to change his behavior.
There's a better way. Parents need tools they can use at home once the child comes out of that office and faces day-to-day, real-world challenges.
Children with anger issues lack the skills to solve the problems they encounter every day. The Total Transformation teaches you how to give your child more effective ways to solve his problems than fighting, screaming, violence, and destructive behavior. He'll learn a simple system that will enable him to handle his problems appropriately and on his own, without acting out. A system that gets him…and you…better results.
We created The Total Transformation for parents like you, who need help in the moment with kids who overwhelm them with angry, explosive outbursts. The reaction to this program by parents has been overwhelming. Take a look.
MY SON UNDERSTANDS THAT HE HAS TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HIS ACTIONS AND THAT VIOLENCE IS NOT A WAY TO DO IT.
My seven–year–old son was extremely violent. He would let loose, yell, scream, holler, punch, and kick. The only thing I could do was restrain him until his anger lessened. Nobody could give me any answers on how to take care of this.
When I got the Total Transformation Program, everything rang true immediately. I got the respect back from my son. He has not hit me. Not once. And it’s been a couple of months now. He understands that he has to take responsibility for his actions and that violence is not a way to do it. I would never imagine that something so quickly could have happened in this house. Everyone can understand and apply what needs to be done and it works immediately.Kathy H
IT HAS LITERALLY SAVED MY FAMILY AND MY SANITY!
My 17–year–old son was angry, out of control, and becoming physically abusive with me. He began running away and was failing school. Out of desperation I found Total Transformation. It has literally saved my family and my sanity! I now feel confident as a parent. I know how to respond in most instances and when I don’t I call the Parent Support Line. Everyone I’ve talked with has been extremely helpful to me. My son is responding well and knows I mean business when it comes to consequences. I feel we have our lives back again! Thank you!!!effective.Life Saver
*Individual results will vary.
We have seen the techniques work time and time again with even the most troubled kids, and are 100% confident that this step–by–step program can bring success to your family, too.
You CAN change your child's behavior and improve your life as a parent quickly. To prove it, we're giving away James Lehman's best–selling Total Transformation Programs—for FREE.
All you need to do is tell us how the program works for you and your family. Did it turn your child's behavior around? Did the screaming and arguing stop in your home?
Just order the program, use it with your child, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. We'll refund the purchase price of the program. You keep The Total Transformation Program forever…for FREE.
James Lehman understood what makes defiant kids tick because he had severe behavior problems as a kid. The techniques in The Total Transformation Program are what turned him around. They're the tools he used for 30 years to get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school.
You don't need a psychology degree to use The Total Transformation. This is a straight-talk, plain English program for parents. There's no psychobabble or high-brow theory. We’ll teach you exactly what to say and do to stop the arguments and get through to your kid, no matter how angry or resistant he is to you. No matter how difficult the behavior has become at home and at school.
The Total Transformation is not a substitute for medication or professional care, or a cure for any disorder or condition. Never discontinue a child's medication without consulting a qualified professional. The Total Transformation is a program for you—the parent—to give you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in parenting a defiant child. It gives you parenting techniques that, until now, were difficult, if not impossible to find.
Parents who use The Total Transformation tell us they'd tried everything—pleading, negotiating, screaming, punishing, even therapy—and nothing had worked. The one thing they hadn't tried was The Total Transformation…and, finally, the defiance and outbursts stopped.
I REALLY DON'T THINK I COULD HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT THE TOTAL TRANSFORMATION.
My first two foster children, teenage boys ages 13 and 14, had challenges with anger management, depression, anxiety, and rebelliousness. They didn’t like to be told what to do, they didn’t like chores, they hadn’t had any real structure for many, many years.
The second day my boys were here, my 14–year–old got really angry with me and exploded. Had I not had The Total Transformation Program, I wouldn’t have known how to deal with him. I followed the program; I calmed down, I gave him 5 minutes, we went through what happened, what triggered him, what made him blow up, and he ended up crying. It was a very moving experience that brought us closer.
Now, my boys aren’t as depressed or anxious and they’ve started doing their chores. I’m getting reports from school that make me a very proud foster parent. I really don’t think I could have done it without The Total Transformation. This program works. It was well worth the money and I highly recommend it.Dianna N.
HE LOVES SCHOOL, HIS GRADES ARE EXCELLENT AND HIS BEHAVIOR AT HOME IS VASTLY IMPROVED.
My wife and I have been pulling out all the stops to help our son, age 7, with his defiance and anger issues. Last year, in first grade, he was consumed with anxiety. The year was a seemingly endless loop of anxiety, outbursts, reprimands and tension. We purchased The Total Transformation late in the summer and our son is on a completely different track. He loves school, his grades are excellent and his behavior at home is vastly improved.EPMWorks
WITHIN JUST A FEW DAYS*, THE SKILLS WE LEARNED HAD A GREAT EFFECT ON HIM.
We are very pleased with the Total Transformation System. I really did not think anything could help us. My son has ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder and is very aggressive and angry. Within just a few days*, the skills we learned had a great effect on him. Thank You!!!Tennessee Mom
*Individual results will vary.
No Screaming. No Arguing. No Frustration
A child with defiant, angry behavior can turn your home into a war zone where there is no peace. The Total Transformation teaches you how to restore the peace and sanity in your home and stop the screaming and arguing.
On day one, you'll learn a whole new way to get your child to cooperate, without having to raise your voice. Ever. No more getting sucked into pointless, never-ending arguments with your kid. No more senseless power struggles with an 8-year-old or a 15-year-old. No more negotiating and pleading to get your child to respond to simple requests. No more feeling powerless and wrung out because nothing you say to your kid gets through. Now, when you talk, your child will listen and respond appropriately.
Get Back in Control of Your Family Now
Who's really in charge at your home? If you're trying to parent a defiant, out-of-control child, you know how their behavior affects everyone and everything in your home, from siblings to your relationship with your spouse.
It's time to put you back in control of your home. Getting that control is simpler than you think. The Total Transformation will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority and structure your children actually need from you.
Maybe you're thinking, “You don't know my kid.” Maybe you think nothing could change your child’s behavior. Well, we do know your kid, and we want you to see how this program can transform your child’s behavior and your life as a parent.
That’s Why We're Willing to Give You
the Entire Program for FREE
The Total Transformation Program has helped over 200,000 families and we really want to see what it can do for you too! That's why, for a limited time, we're willing to give you the program for FREE in exchange for your feedback.
When you order your program, you’ll pay 3 monthly payments of $109 each, plus $19 for shipping and handling ($25 to Canadian destinations). Then, if you complete and return the survey that’s enclosed with your program—within 180 days— you’ll get a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You’ll keep the program forever…for FREE.
Have you ever had a therapist give you an offer like that? We will, because we know how to deal with anger disorders in children and can help you turn things around in your home. The program will give you the chance to enjoy being a parent again and rediscover your child.
Don’t lose any more sleep over your child’s behavior. Don’t spend another day living in fear of the next phone call from school—or worse.
Get in on this FREE Program Offer today and stop the bad behavior…for good.
If you don't try this program, what will you do to change your child's behavior? Are you hoping it will change on its own? Violent Outbursts and Anger don't change without an intervention like the one we're giving you here. The Total Transformation will give you all the tools you need to improve your child's behavior. And you can use them all for FREE.
Plus…if you sign up for the FREE Program offer now, you'll also receive a FREE Bonus CD: 10 Ways to Turn Around Your Child's Attitude in One Minute or Less. So don’t delay! Click here to get in on this FREE Offer now…
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"Before I met James, I was an angry person. I used to get out of control a lot. Almost every day after school, my sister and I would come home and fight and argue. There'd be verbal and physical abuse.
Now, me and my sister, we're like best friends. We talk. We don't fight and argue and call each other names. There's no more physical or verbal abuse. We just get along.
James Lehman has helped me in so many ways, my life is real strong and steady. There's no doubt, I'm on my way.”
Recent Reviews of The Total Transformation Program
Review by : JaneHupp
Your program was invaluable in helping us guide our troubled teenager through her problems. I really wish we had had that information when our older children were growing!
Review by : Been There
Total Transformation cut through five frustrating years of diagnoses, medications, and behavior therapy. Our preteen daughter was diagnosed as bipolar, then ADD, then ODD, given a long list of medicines to try, but we never got a plan of how to actually help her at home. It seemed we only spent time in the psychologist's office discussing how difficult it was, but no plan of action. Total Transformation gave us action items, a plan, and support. We implemented consequences, discovered her real issue is with problem-solving, and we learned it is OK to abort a fight with our daughter! The change is slow but sure, and we no longer feel anxious about how to handle her outbursts and tantrums. Highly recommend this program to any parent who is feeling hopeless about their child's behavior!
Review by : Tracy Y.
The Total Transformation Program is simple, powerful and effective. We have been using it for 4 months and are delighted with the results. I hesitated at first, finally just did it and have been smiling since.
"The results from using The Total Transformation were almost immediate. Our home life has changed dramatically because of The Total Transformation.
Our counseling bills were—we were paying $75 a session and we were going once a week for about two and a half years. If you do the math, by comparison, The Total Transformation is a dramatic bargain."
"Before using the Total Transformation program, there was no communication. The only communication was yelling and screaming and unkind words. After implementing the Total Transformation program, we can actually talk.
I think she’s hearing me a lot more now. Whereas before she was tuning me out. And I think that she’s able to hear me more because I’m screaming less.
And what was also a relief is that he wasn’t talking me down and saying you’re a bad mom because you’re screaming. You didn’t get any of that. It was none of that. He was just saying you know what it’s not effective, it’s not working. Let me give you something that’s going to work for you. And that was what was so phenomenal for me.”
"I got the package. And I think within 30 seconds of the opening, I said to myself this is one of the best investments I've ever made. The Total Transformation is result-oriented. No discussion. No lecturing. No explanation. Focus on the behavior. And it worked! That's what made me a believer. There was more value in the couple of hours of tapes that I bought from The Total Transformation, frankly, than ten thousand dollars worth of counseling or shrinks. If someone were to ask me what was the single adjective or the single description that would encapsulate my reward from working with The Total Transformation, I would say there's lots more peace in the house. And that is priceless."