Finally…a simple, step–by–step way to stop your child’s oppositional, defiant behavior—RIGHT NOW
Are you frustrated and exhausted from arguing constantly with an oppositional, defiant child? Do you “walk on eggshells” around your child, avoiding conflicts that will “set him off?” Have you tried everything to stop the hostility, anger and aggression and all you get is more of it?
All children show some level of defiance from time to time. But in children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), the defiance, hostility and refusal to comply are ongoing and the behavior affects the entire family. ODD is one of the toughest of all parenting challenges. But I’ve seen that when parents use the right tools, they can change their child’s oppositional behavior—quickly and dramatically.
James and Janet Lehman: Practical Solutions to Child Behavior Problems from 30 Years of Hands–On Experience
tional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager, and became a Behavioral Thera–
pist specializing in helping troubled children, teens and their families for 30 years.
A Lifetime of Experience with Oppositional Defiant Disorder
James Lehman had a very personal understanding of ODD because he displayed severe oppositional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager. For more than 30 years, he was a behavioral therapist, focusing his work on helping oppositional, defiant children and teenagers to turn their behavior around.
We know the frustration, fear, isolation and exhaustion you’re feeling as a parent because we’ve worked with hundreds of parents just like you. Parents of kids with ODD feel like they’re trapped in little prisons with no way out. No matter how hard they try, they can’t escape the endless arguments and ceaseless hostility from their child.
No one knows a kid with ODD better than someone who behaved the same way as a kid. That’s why The Total Transformation Program can teach you how to turn your child’s behavior around—now.
They Say He “Needs Structure.”
But How? We’ll Show You How
If you’re parenting a child with ODD, you’ve heard this statement a thousand times: “This child needs structure.” But what does that “structure” look like and how do you put it in place in your home?
That’s where The Total Transformation comes in. The program teaches you simple, step–by–step techniques for giving your child the structure he needs to solve his problems and improve his behavior now.
- How to stop any argument with your kid instantly
This is a powerful technique parents love because it pulls the plug on any argument with your child. You’ll be stunned at how quickly it works. Even if your teenage son is 6’2” tall and you’re 5’4”.
- The 10 words to say when he gets mouthy
The technique that stops back talk and cursing…no matter how nasty your child gets.
- Stop the show
The surefire way to stop fighting and acting out in public. If your child gets more defiant when he’s with his friends, this is a must–have tool.
We’ll give you a word–by–word script to use with your child to get him to take responsibility for his own behavior and stop blaming you and others.
How to give them, which ones work and which ones don’t, with specific consequences for kids in all age groups.
- What to do the next time
Instead of talking back, screaming or blaming you, your child will now have a way to solve his problems that gets him better results and better reactions from teachers and other adults.
The Secret to Cracking ODD:
It’s Not About Self–Esteem. It’s About Problem Solving
Like many parents of kids with ODD, you may have been in family therapy with your child. And you’ve probably come out wondering why it’s still so difficult to get your child’s behavior to change, after you’ve spent all that time and money.
Here’s why. Traditional counseling and therapy focus on getting a child with ODD to talk about his “feelings” and building his self–esteem to change his behavior.
There’s a better way. Parents need tools they can use at home once the child comes out of that office and faces day–to–day, real–world challenges.
Chronically oppositional kids lack the skills to solve the problems they encounter every day. The Total Transformation teaches you how to give your child more effective ways to solve his problems without fighting, screaming, annoying and defiance. He’ll learn a simple system that will enable him to handle his problems appropriately and on his own, without acting out. A system that gets him…and you…better results.
I created The Total Transformation for parents like you, who need help in the moment with kids who overwhelm them with defiance and bad behavior. The reaction to this program by parents of kids with ODD has been overwhelming. Take a look.
YOU HAVE REALLY TURNED MY KID AROUND
My 8–year–old son was diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder and ADHD. He was stealing, lying and had temper tantrums when he didn’t get his own way. You have really turned my kid around. Within the first month we noticed a major change.* All of a sudden, there was this total transformation. He realized this behavior wasn’t worth it anymore. Now he pretty much has a good day every day. He does his work. He gets full privileges at home. I encourage other parents to try it because it really does work.Shawna P.
Calgary, Alberta Canada
*Individual results will vary.
IF YOU SAY THESE WORDS, THEY STOP ARGUING
My grandson is 15 years old. He is extremely argumentative. He just won’t stop arguing. He’s obsessive about it. We’ve learned verbiage from The Total Transformation Program that you can say and it’s almost like magic. If you say those words, they stop arguing! Thanks so much to all of you and especially to James Lehman. I hope this program brings success to millions of families.Pat H.
We've seen these techniques work time and time again with even the most troubled kids, and we are 100% confident that this step–by–step program can bring success to your family, too.
You CAN change your child’s behavior and improve your life as a parent quickly. To prove it, we're giving away James Lehman's best selling Total Transformation Program—for free.
All you need to do is tell us how the program works for you and your family. Did it turn your child’s behavior around? Did the screaming and arguing stop in your home?
Just order the program, use it with your child, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. We’ll refund the purchase price of the program. You keep The Total Transformation Program forever…for FREE.
James Lehman understood what makes kids with Oppositional Defiant Disorder tick because he was chronically oppositional as a kid. The techniques in The Total Transformation Program are what turned him around. They’re the tools he used for 30 years to get kids with Oppositional Defiant Disorder to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school.
You don’t need a psychology degree to use The Total Transformation. This is a straight–talk, plain English program for parents. There’s no psychobabble or high–brow theory. We’ll teach you exactly what to say and do to stop the arguments and get through to your kid, no matter how resistant he is to you. No matter how difficult the behavior has become at home and at school.
The Total Transformation is not a substitute for medication or professional care, or a cure for any disorder or condition. Never discontinue a child’s medication without consulting a qualified professional. The Total Transformation is a program for you—the parent—to give you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in parenting an oppositional, defiant child. It gives you parenting techniques that, until now, were difficult, if not impossible to find.
Parents who use The Total Transformation tell us they’d tried everything—pleading, negotiating, screaming, punishing, even therapy—and nothing had worked. The one thing they hadn’t tried was The Total Transformation and, finally, the bad behavior stopped.
THE ARGUMENTS HAVE ALMOST CEASED
Our son always had a hard time with authority, especially our authority. The results from using The Total Transformation Program are the arguments have almost ceased. They are down 90%. It’s made a happier home. For the first time we have control. Now we know how to end those arguments. We get to them before they even start.Dede M.
Missouri City, TX
WE’RE TURNING AROUND IN OUR HOUSE.
What we’re experiencing is defiance, obnoxious and disrespectful behavior in dealing with parents. Extreme fighting between the two kids. To the point where it was physical. Really severe threats, beating each other up, hurting each other. We’ve only had The Total Transformation for about three weeks but already we feel more relaxed because we feel like we’ve got something that’s working. And the kids are starting to respond. I’m feeling better, my husband’s feeling better and I think my kids are starting to feel that we’re turning around in our house.Debra K.
Glen Burnie, MD
THANK YOU FOR GIVING ME BACK MY SON. THANK YOU FOR MAKING PARENTING FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE A JOY NOW.
After The Total Transformation, my son and I want to be around each other. Now when I ask him to do something he does it. There’s no more arguing, no more lecturing and no more back talking. I am totally shocked at the results. If it can do 25 percent of what it’s claiming, it will be a success, and it’s done 100% of what it’s claimed for me.Ed M.
No Screaming. No Arguing. No Frustration
A child with oppositional, defiant behavior can turn your home into a war zone where there is no peace. The Total Transformation teaches you how to restore the peace and sanity in your home and stop the screaming and arguing.
On day one, you’ll learn a whole new way to get your child to cooperate, without having to raise your voice. Ever. No more getting sucked into pointless, never–ending arguments with your kid. No more senseless power struggles with an 8–year–old or a 15–year–old. No more negotiating and pleading to get your child to respond to simple requests. No more feeling powerless and wrung out because nothing you say to your kid gets through. Now, when you talk, your child will listen and respond appropriately.
Get Back in Control of Your Family Now
Who’s really in charge at your home? If you’re trying to parent a child with Oppositional Defiant Disorder, you know how their behavior affects everyone and everything in your home, from siblings to your relationship with your spouse.
It’s time to put you back in control of your home. Getting that control is simpler than you think. The Total Transformation will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority and structure your children actually need from you.
The Best Way to See How it Works
is to Try it For FREE—Click Here Now
Maybe you’re thinking, “You don’t know my kid.” Maybe you think that nothing could change your child’s behavior. Well, we do know your kid, and we want you to see how this program can transform his behavior and your life as a parent.
That’s Why We’re Willing to Give You
the Entire Program for FREE
The Total Transformation Program has helped over 200,000 families and we really want to see what it can do for you too! That’s why, for a limited time, we’re willing to give you our program for FREE in exchange for your feedback.
When you order your program, you’ll pay 3 monthly payments of $109 each, plus $19 for shipping and handling ($25 to Canadian destinations). Then, if you complete and return the survey that’s enclosed with your program—within 180 days—you’ll get a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You’ll keep the program forever…for FREE.
Have you ever had a therapist give you an offer like that? We will, because we know how to turn kids with Oppositional Defiant Disorder around and we know that The Total Transformation will help you turn things around in your home. The program will give you the chance to enjoy being a parent again and rediscover your child.
Don’t lose any more sleep over your child’s behavior. Don’t spend another day living in fear of the next phone call from school—or worse.
Get in on this FREE Program Offer today and stop the bad behavior…for good.
If you don’t try this program, what will you do to change your child’s behavior? Are you hoping it will change on its own? Oppositional Defiant Disorder doesn’t change without an intervention like the one we’re giving you here. The Total Transformation will give you all the tools you need to improve your child’s behavior. And you can use them all for FREE.
Plus…if you sign up for the FREE Program offer now, you’ll also receive a FREE Bonus CD: 10 Ways to Turn Around Your Child’s Attitude in One Minute or Less. So don’t delay!
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"Before I met James, I was an angry person. I used to get out of control a lot. Almost every day after school, my sister and I would come home and fight and argue. There'd be verbal and physical abuse.
Now, me and my sister, we're like best friends. We talk. We don't fight and argue and call each other names. There's no more physical or verbal abuse. We just get along.
James Lehman has helped me in so many ways, my life is real strong and steady. There's no doubt, I'm on my way.”
Recent Reviews of The Total Transformation Program
Review by : JaneHupp
Your program was invaluable in helping us guide our troubled teenager through her problems. I really wish we had had that information when our older children were growing!
Review by : Been There
Total Transformation cut through five frustrating years of diagnoses, medications, and behavior therapy. Our preteen daughter was diagnosed as bipolar, then ADD, then ODD, given a long list of medicines to try, but we never got a plan of how to actually help her at home. It seemed we only spent time in the psychologist's office discussing how difficult it was, but no plan of action. Total Transformation gave us action items, a plan, and support. We implemented consequences, discovered her real issue is with problem-solving, and we learned it is OK to abort a fight with our daughter! The change is slow but sure, and we no longer feel anxious about how to handle her outbursts and tantrums. Highly recommend this program to any parent who is feeling hopeless about their child's behavior!
Review by : Tracy Y.
The Total Transformation Program is simple, powerful and effective. We have been using it for 4 months and are delighted with the results. I hesitated at first, finally just did it and have been smiling since.
"The results from using The Total Transformation were almost immediate. Our home life has changed dramatically because of The Total Transformation.
Our counseling bills were—we were paying $75 a session and we were going once a week for about two and a half years. If you do the math, by comparison, The Total Transformation is a dramatic bargain."
"Before using the Total Transformation program, there was no communication. The only communication was yelling and screaming and unkind words. After implementing the Total Transformation program, we can actually talk.
I think she’s hearing me a lot more now. Whereas before she was tuning me out. And I think that she’s able to hear me more because I’m screaming less.
And what was also a relief is that he wasn’t talking me down and saying you’re a bad mom because you’re screaming. You didn’t get any of that. It was none of that. He was just saying you know what it’s not effective, it’s not working. Let me give you something that’s going to work for you. And that was what was so phenomenal for me.”
"I got the package. And I think within 30 seconds of the opening, I said to myself this is one of the best investments I've ever made. The Total Transformation is result-oriented. No discussion. No lecturing. No explanation. Focus on the behavior. And it worked! That's what made me a believer. There was more value in the couple of hours of tapes that I bought from The Total Transformation, frankly, than ten thousand dollars worth of counseling or shrinks. If someone were to ask me what was the single adjective or the single description that would encapsulate my reward from working with The Total Transformation, I would say there's lots more peace in the house. And that is priceless."