Finally…a simple, step–by–step way to help your struggling
teen at home—RIGHT NOW
Are you struggling with a teenager who is angry, disruptive, defiant, or abusive toward you? Is he making bad choices and heading down a dangerous path? Has he been in trouble with the law? Is his behavior tearing your family apart? Are you at your wit’s end, desperately trying everything to help your teen—to get him back on the right path—but the problem behaviors remain?
All teens behave badly from time to time. But when out-of-control behaviors are ongoing or become more severe, serious interventions are often required.
Many parents seek therapy for their struggling teens or consider sending them to a special school, wilderness camp, or residential treatment center—not out of choice, but because other options have failed and they see no other alternatives. Fortunately, we’ve seen that when parents use the right tools, they don’t need to send their teens away. They can help them learn skills—right at home—that can stop the harmful, risky behavior…quickly.
James and Janet Lehman: Practical Solutions to Child Behavior Problems from 30 Years of Hands–On Experience
tional, defiant behaviors as a child and teenager, and became a Behavioral Thera–
pist specializing in helping troubled children, teens and their families for 30 years.
A Lifetime of Experience with Seriously Troubled Teens
James Lehman had a very personal understanding of teens with behavior problems because he displayed destructive, delinquent behaviors as a teenager too. He quit school, left home, lived on the streets, and drifted into a life of substance abuse and crime. After more than 6 years in various jails and prisons, he participated in an accountability-focused treatment program that turned his life around. For more than 30 years, he was a behavioral therapist, focusing on helping troubled teenagers take responsibility for their actions and turn their behavior around.
We know the frustration, fear, isolation and exhaustion you’re feeling as a parent because we’ve worked with hundreds of parents just like you. Parents with struggling teens feel like they’re trapped in little prisons with no way out. No matter how hard they try, they can’t seem to help their teens. They aren’t able to stop their risky, out-of-control behaviors and get them back on the right path.
No one understands a troubled teen’s behavior better than someone who behaved the same way. The Total Transformation Program can teach you how to turn your child's behavior around—now.
They Say He "Needs Structure." But How? We’ll Show You How
If you're parenting a difficult teen, you've probably heard this statement a thousand times: "This child needs structure." But what does that "structure" look like and how do you put it in place in your home?
That's where The Total Transformation comes in. We'll teach you simple, step-by-step techniques you can use at home to give your teenager the structure he needs to solve the problems that frustrate and anger him and trigger the bad behavior.
- Get your parental authority back
When your teenager defies you or gets abusive, you’ll learn exactly what to say and do to maintain your authority and get back in control.
- Hold your teen accountable for his actions
Step–by–step techniques for establishing a "culture of accountability" in your home that holds your child accountable to the values, rules, and behavior expectations YOU set.
- Stop "the blame game"
"You don’t understand." "It’s not fair." "It’s her fault." How to get your teen to stop blaming you and others and start taking responsibility for his behavior.
- Give consequences that work
How to give them, which ones work and which ones don’t, with specific consequences for pre–teens and teenagers.
- Accept "no excuse for abuse"
When back talk and swearing turn into verbal abuse, learn what to do and when. You don’t have to accept ugly, abusive talk from your teen, and you can stop it, even if it feels like it’s gotten out of control.
- How to stop arguing with your child
This is a powerful technique parents love because it pulls the plug on any argument with your child. You’ll be stunned at how quickly it works. Even if your teenage son is 6'2" tall and you're 5'4".
- Teach your teen alternatives to lashing out
We ’ll show you a simple way to teach your teen problem–solving skills that he’ll need to make it as an adult. So the next time he’s struggling or feeling angry, scared, frustrated or inadequate, he’ll know how to solve his problems—appropriately—instead of acting out, abusing you, running away, drinking, or using drugs.
The Secret: It’s About Problem Solving
Like many parents of struggling teens, you’re probably desperate for a solution to your child’s behavior problems. You may have tried family therapy and have come out wondering why it’s still so difficult to get your child’s behavior to change after you’ve spent all that time and money. Or, maybe you’ve tried sending your teen to a reform school or residential treatment program where he thrived within the artificial confines of the off-site program, but still couldn’t deal with the real world.
There's a better way. Parents need at-home tools and techniques to help their teens face day-to-day, real-world challenges.
The Total Transformation Program helps you teach your child more effective ways to solve his problems. You’ll learn a simple parenting system that will show you how to help your teen handle his problems appropriately and on his own, without acting out or engaging in risky behaviors. A system that gets him…and you…better results.
We created The Total Transformation for parents like you, who need help in the moment with teenagers who are out of control. The reaction to this program by parents has been overwhelming. Take a look.
THE GREATEST BLESSING I’VE RECEIVED SINCE BECOMING A PARENT OF A TEENAGER.
When my fourteen–year–old son entered adolescence, he got much more defiant, really testing limits. He stopped coming home on time. He started smoking marijuana and broke into someone’s home. He went to juvenile hall overnight and was put on probation.
We knew we had lost control. I absolutely felt I had failed. None of the books or classes I tried addressed the real issues. We thought the only alternative was to send him to one of those schools that costs $45,000.
I came across The Total Transformation ad and I thought, I have nothing to lose. As soon as I popped in the first CD, I knew we were going to get the help we needed. I was astounded how well James Lehman understood—it was as if he wrote the program for my son.
We’ve gotten more out of this program than from the almost $5,000 we’ve spent on testing and professionals. If we had learned about it sooner, it would have saved us a lot of money, time, frustration—and pain. It specifically addresses what to do, and exactly how to do it. It’s given us back our lives and hope. It’s exactly what we needed. I absolutely recommend The Total Transformation. There is no doubt this program would benefit any family.Leslie L.
THIS PROGRAM IS PRICELESS.
My husband and I bought the program to help us with our 17 year old son. Our house had become a mine field with our teenager, we needed help! Everything this program promises is true. This program is priceless, and every parent should have it just in case they end up with a difficult child. If we’d had the training and skills to parent our son the way he needed to be parented years ago, life would have been so much better.
We’ve been on the program for a couple of months now* and our house is calm, we are in control (not him), he is being respectful—the difference is night and day. James has made it possible for us to have a relationship with our teenager, and to truly have peace and joy with him.kaitrinn7
We have seen the techniques work time and time again with even the most troubled kids, and are 100% confident that this step–by–step program can bring success to your family, too.
You CAN change your child’s behavior and improve your life as a parent quickly. To prove it, we're giving away James Lehman's best–selling Total Transformation Programs—for FREE.
All you need to do is tell us how the program works for you and your family. Did it turn your child’s behavior around? Did the screaming and arguing stop in your home?
Just order the program, use it with your child, then complete and return the enclosed Feedback Survey. We'll refund the purchase price of the program. You keep The Total Transformation Program forever…for FREE.
James Lehman understood what makes troubled kids tick because he had severe behavior problems as a teenager. The techniques in The Total Transformation Program are what turned him around. They're the tools he used for 30 years to get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly, and stop making bad choices.
You don’t need a psychology degree to use The Total Transformation. This is a straight–talk, plain English program for parents. There’s no psychobabble or high–brow theory. We'll teach you exactly what to say and do to stop the arguments and get through to your teenager, no matter how much trouble he’s causing. No matter how serious the behavior has become at home and at school.
The Total Transformation is not a substitute for medication or professional care, or a cure for any disorder or condition. Never discontinue a child's medication without consulting a qualified professional. The Total Transformation is a program for you—the parent—to give you the knowledge and tools you need to be more effective in parenting. It gives you parenting techniques that, until now, were difficult, if not impossible to find.
Parents who use The Total Transformation tell us they'd tried everything—pleading, negotiating, screaming, punishing, even therapy—and nothing had worked. The one thing they hadn't tried was The Total Transformation…and, finally, the bad behavior stopped.
THE DIFFERENCE IN MY DAUGHTER IS UNBELIEVABLE.
I was at my wit’s end with my 15 year old daughter. She went from an A student to failing 4 classes, screaming and cussing at my husband and me (in public and at home), and making everyone in the family miserable.
I ordered this program without a lot of faith that it would work. However, I listened to the CDs and religiously followed the program. The difference in my daughter is unbelievable. She is more respectful, grades are back to A’s, and there is finally peace in my household. I actually enjoy being with my daughter again. Thank you for this unbelievable program. I highly recommend it. It is a life changing program.A mother at her wit's end
I HIGHLY ENDORSE THIS PLAN. IT IS WORTH EVERY PENNY!
As a medical doctor, I have learned how to diagnose and treat many ailments. But I was unable to cope with my teenage son’s bad behaviors. His back–talking, smart mouth, his unwillingness to do his homework and general disobedience were causing me to scream all the time. Our interactions were poor. His guidance counselor and our minister both talked with him to no avail. I was ready to send him off to a boot camp.
Finally out of desperation I ordered the Total Transformation. What a fantastic program! I am a huge fan of the behavior modification approach that Mr. Lehman espouses. We have seen some major improvements already. I have recommended the program to others suffering with poorly behaving children. I highly endorse this plan. It is worth every penny! ’ImDrMom
*Individual results will vary.
No Screaming. No Arguing. No Frustration
An angry, uncontrollable teenager can turn your home into a war zone where there is no peace. The Total Transformation teaches you how to restore the peace and sanity in your home and stop the screaming and arguing.
On day one, you’ll learn a whole new way to get your teen to cooperate, without having to raise your voice. Ever. No more getting sucked into pointless, never-ending arguments with him. No more senseless power struggles. No more negotiating and pleading to get him to respond to simple requests. No more feeling powerless and wrung out because nothing you say to him gets through. Now, when you talk, your teenager will listen and respond appropriately.
Get Back in Control of Your Family Now
Who's really in charge at your home? If you're trying to parent an explosive, out-of-control teenager, you know how their behavior affects everyone and everything in your home, from siblings to your relationship with your spouse.
It's time to put you back in control of your home. Getting that control is simpler than you think. The Total Transformation will give you back the respect you deserve and the authority and structure your teen actually needs from you.
Maybe you're thinking, “You don't know my kid.” Maybe you think that nothing can change his behavior. Well, we do know your kid. we’ve worked with many teens just like yours, and we want you to see how this program can transform his behavior and your life as a parent.
That’s Why We're Willing to Give You
the Entire Program for FREE
The Total Transformation Program has helped over 200,000 families and we really want to see what it can do for you too! That’s why, for a limited time, we're willing to give you my program for FREE in exchange for your feedback.
When you order your program, you’ll pay 3 monthly payments of $109 each, plus $19 for shipping and handling ($25 to Canadian destinations). Then, if you complete and return the survey that’s enclosed with your program—within 180 days— you’ll get a full refund of the program price (excluding shipping). You’ll keep the program forever…for FREE.
Have you ever had a therapist give you an offer like that? We will, because we know how to turn struggling teens around and can help you turn things around in your home. We want to give you the chance to enjoy being a parent again and rediscover your child.
Don’t lose any more sleep over your child’s behavior. Don’t spend another day living in fear of the next phone call from school—or worse.
Get in on the FREE Program Offer today and stop the bad behavior…for good.
If you don’t try this program, what will you do to change your teen’s behavior?
Residential treatment programs such as military/reform schools and boot/wilderness camps can provide short term help, teaching teenagers how to behave in restrictive, artificial environments, but rarely bring about permanent behavior changes once they return home and are faced with real world challenges. We can tell you from 30 years of experience that behavior doesn’t change for good without an intervention like the one we're giving you here. The Total Transformation Program gives you all the tools you need to manage your teen’s behavior in the real world. And you can use them all for FREE.
Plus…if you sign up for the FREE Program offer now, you'll also receive a FREE Bonus CD: 10 Ways to Turn Around Your Child's Attitude in One Minute or Less. So don’t delay! Click here to get in on this FREE Offer now…
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"Before I met James, I was an angry person. I used to get out of control a lot. Almost every day after school, my sister and I would come home and fight and argue. There'd be verbal and physical abuse.
Now, me and my sister, we're like best friends. We talk. We don't fight and argue and call each other names. There's no more physical or verbal abuse. We just get along.
James Lehman has helped me in so many ways, my life is real strong and steady. There's no doubt, I'm on my way.”
Recent Reviews of The Total Transformation Program
Review by : JaneHupp
Your program was invaluable in helping us guide our troubled teenager through her problems. I really wish we had had that information when our older children were growing!
Review by : Been There
Total Transformation cut through five frustrating years of diagnoses, medications, and behavior therapy. Our preteen daughter was diagnosed as bipolar, then ADD, then ODD, given a long list of medicines to try, but we never got a plan of how to actually help her at home. It seemed we only spent time in the psychologist's office discussing how difficult it was, but no plan of action. Total Transformation gave us action items, a plan, and support. We implemented consequences, discovered her real issue is with problem-solving, and we learned it is OK to abort a fight with our daughter! The change is slow but sure, and we no longer feel anxious about how to handle her outbursts and tantrums. Highly recommend this program to any parent who is feeling hopeless about their child's behavior!
Review by : Tracy Y.
The Total Transformation Program is simple, powerful and effective. We have been using it for 4 months and are delighted with the results. I hesitated at first, finally just did it and have been smiling since.
"The results from using The Total Transformation were almost immediate. Our home life has changed dramatically because of The Total Transformation.
Our counseling bills were—we were paying $75 a session and we were going once a week for about two and a half years. If you do the math, by comparison, The Total Transformation is a dramatic bargain."
"Before using the Total Transformation program, there was no communication. The only communication was yelling and screaming and unkind words. After implementing the Total Transformation program, we can actually talk.
I think she’s hearing me a lot more now. Whereas before she was tuning me out. And I think that she’s able to hear me more because I’m screaming less.
And what was also a relief is that he wasn’t talking me down and saying you’re a bad mom because you’re screaming. You didn’t get any of that. It was none of that. He was just saying you know what it’s not effective, it’s not working. Let me give you something that’s going to work for you. And that was what was so phenomenal for me.”
"I got the package. And I think within 30 seconds of the opening, I said to myself this is one of the best investments I've ever made. The Total Transformation is result-oriented. No discussion. No lecturing. No explanation. Focus on the behavior. And it worked! That's what made me a believer. There was more value in the couple of hours of tapes that I bought from The Total Transformation, frankly, than ten thousand dollars worth of counseling or shrinks. If someone were to ask me what was the single adjective or the single description that would encapsulate my reward from working with The Total Transformation, I would say there's lots more peace in the house. And that is priceless."